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DeAndre* is an
African American boy who is a seventh grader at In
class, DeAndre's behavior was unpredictable and impulsive. On any given day, DeAndre would come into
class and act like a model student. On
these days, he volunteered to act out scenes from the novel, read paragraphs
to the class, or passionately shared his ideas about “Get Back,” a blues song
about racial discrimination. DeAndre's “bad” days contrasted drastically
with his studious behaviors. On these
days, DeAndre’s moody temperament regulated his behavior. For instance, DeAndre occasionally felt too
depressed or tired to lift his head from his desk. His
emotional behavior was also impulsive and violent. One time, DeAndre exploded in class because
I told him that he could not get a drink until he made more progress on his
work. DeAndre responded by yelling and
slamming his hand on his desk. When I
gave him a warning, he took his novel and threw it violently at the
whiteboard. After
reflecting on these outbursts, I decided that I needed to capitalize on
DeAndre’s “good” days to strengthen our student-teacher relationship. When these opportunities arose, I
positively reinforced his good ideas by complimenting him and by giving him
the opportunity to lead his classmates.
For instance, I asked him to record his classmates’ examples on the
whiteboard during a discussion. My
approach had successful long term effects.
After several months of working together, DeAndre would usually
respond to a warning with an apology, rather than a tantrum. I also helped DeAndre overcome his moodiness
more quickly. For example, one day
DeAndre had a small outburst during a poetry writing activity. After he calmed down, I went over to his
desk and read his poem. It was quite
good, so I complimented his work and asked him to share it with the class during
discussion. DeAndre’s face immediately
brightened, and he was back on track for the remainder of class. Teaching
DeAndre has taught me that student-teacher relationships are the most
important component of classroom management.
As soon as we developed a respectful relationship, the severity of
DeAndre’s behaviors decreased, and he began to take more responsibility for
his actions. *Name changed |