Marriage
In a treatise on domestic matters, Xenophon explains the role of the Athenian wife compared to that of her husband. He describes the duties which should be performed by the man compared to the duties which are appropriate for the wife in the following manner:
"Now in my opinion, wife, the gods seem to have devised the
pair called female and male with particular insight that it
be most advantageous to itself for the good of its common
enterprise. First of all, so that the generations of living things
might not fail, the pair lies with one another in begetting
children. Secondly, from the pairs provided, for humans at
any rate, the means of acquiring those who will attend their
old age. Next, the way of life for humans is not, as it is for
cattle, in the outdoors, but there is need for a roof. That is
clear. Certainly for humans who intend to have something
to bring into the house, there is needed someone to do the
outdoor work. Plowing, sowing, planting, pasturing, all these
are outdoor occupations. From them come the necessities
of life. There is need, in turn, when these are brought into the
house, for someone to watch over and tend to the proper
occupations of the house. the care of new-born children
house, as does the making of clothes from wool. Since both
occupations, those inside and those outside, need work
and attention, the god, as it seems to me, mad nature accord-
ingly : the woman's for indoor occupations and the man's
for outdoor ones. He made the body and spirit of the man
more able to overcome cold, heat, travel, and military service.
Thus he assigned to him the outdoor occupations. Since he
endowed the woman by nature with a body less able to over-
come the rigors of cold, heat, travel, and military service,
the god seems to me to have assigned to her the indoor tasks.
Knowing that he had endowed her by nature and assigned her
the rearing of new-born children, he also apportioned to her
more affection for new-born babies than to the man. Since he
also assigned to the woman the watching over what was
brought into the house, and since he realized that for guarding
it was no loss if the soul be timid, the god apportioned a
greater amount of timidity to the woman than to the man.
On the other hand, knowing that there will be need for the
one who has the outdoor occupations to act in defense of
them, the god apportioned to the man the greater amount of
courage."
(qtd. in A Study of Athenian Mythmaking, by Wm. Blake Tyrrell, pg. 45-46)